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The Beauty of Incomplete Love

 Rain fell in soft, uneven rhythms on the city streets, turning asphalt into rivers of reflected light. She walked alone under the hum of neon signs and the occasional shuttered café, her umbrella a flimsy shield against the monsoon that mirrored the quiet tempest inside her. In a world that rushed past, everyone chasing immediacy, she carried a secret rhythm of her own—a silent heartbeat that belonged to nobody yet resonated with everything. She had learned to move through life like a shadow in a crowded room, unnoticed but observing. The way people laughed too loudly, touched too quickly, and whispered promises they would forget by sunset made her chest tighten with both longing and a strange relief. She understood now that love in its rawest form need not always be possessed. Sometimes, it merely needed to exist, in glances, in shared silences, in the tiny, fleeting spaces between two souls. He appeared as if conjured by the same monsoon magic. Not in a grand gesture, but in a s...

Eat That Frog: Consider the Consequences

 "Every great man has become great, every successful man has succeeded, in proportion as he has confined his powers to one particular channel."

-ORISON SWETT MARDEN

Welcome to our blog summarizing the chapter from the book-Eat That Frog focusing on the power of long-term thinking and its impact on decision-making and productivity. 


The mark of a superior thinker lies in their ability to accurately foresee the outcomes of their actions or inactions.


After over fifty years of research, Dr. Edward Banfield of Harvard University concluded that having a "long time perspective" is the most reliable predictor of upward social and economic mobility in the United States. This long-term outlook surpasses factors such as family background, education, race, intelligence, and connections in determining one's success in life and work.



Thinking in the long term enhances short-term decision-making.


Successful individuals possess a clear orientation towards the future. They envision themselves five, ten, or even twenty years ahead and ensure that their present choices and behaviors align with their long-term aspirations.


Make Informed Time Decisions


When it comes to your work, having a clear understanding of what truly matters in the long run enables you to make better decisions about your short-term priorities.


Before embarking on any task, always ask yourself, "What are the potential consequences of doing or not doing this?"


Future intentions often influence and determine present actions.


Embrace Long-Term Thinking


Successful people are those who are willing to delay immediate gratification and make sacrifices in the short term to reap greater rewards in the long term. In contrast, unsuccessful individuals prioritize short-term pleasures and instant gratification, disregarding the future.


On the other hand, arriving at work at the last minute, reading the newspaper, drinking coffee, and socializing with coworkers may seem enjoyable in the short term, but it inevitably leads to missed opportunities, underachievement, and frustration in the long term.


If a task or activity carries significant potential positive consequences, prioritize it and take immediate action.


Time will pass regardless. The question is how you utilize it and where you will end up after weeks and months have gone by. Your destination largely depends on the extent to which you consider the likely consequences of your actions in the short term.



Adhere to the Law of Forced Efficiency


The Law of Forced Efficiency states that "There is never enough time to do everything, but there is always enough time to do the most important thing." In other words, you cannot tackle every small task but focusing on the most crucial one, even if it appears challenging, will suffice for the time being.


When time is running out and the consequences of not completing a key task or project are significant, you always manage to find the time to get it done, often at the last minute.




There will never be sufficient time to accomplish everything on your to-do list.


In today's business environment, particularly during periods of cutbacks, the average person, especially a manager, is working at a capacity of 110 to 130 percent. Responsibilities keep piling up, and there is a backlog of reading material and projects both at home and in the office.


This means you will never catch up completely. Let go of the wishful idea. Aim to stay on top of your most important responsibilities, and the rest will have to wait.


Three Questions for Optimal Productivity


To stay focused on completing your most critical tasks on schedule, regularly ask yourself three questions. The first question is, "What are my highest-value activities?" In other words, what are the most significant tasks that contribute the most to your organization, family, and overall life?


First, reflect on this question personally. Then seek input from your boss, coworkers, subordinates, friends, and family.


"What can I, and only I, do that, if done well, will make a substantial difference?"


"What is the most valuable use of my time at this moment?"


"What is the most significant task I need to tackle right now?"


Prioritize first things first and avoid second things altogether.


The more accurate your answers to these three questions, the easier it becomes to set clear priorities, overcome procrastination, and initiate the one activity that represents the most valuable use of your time.


By considering the likely consequences of actions in the short term, individuals can utilize their time effectively and strive for long-term success.

As Goethe said, "The things that matter the most must never be in the mercy of the things that matter the least."

So, take charge of your future by embracing long-term thinking, prioritizing your highest-value activities, and making informed time decisions. Start today and pave the path to long-term success.


Signing off

Deepakshi Bora

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